Positive Pointers

Kirsten Murphy

Needlepoint started as a creative outlet, but it’s become so much more than just a hobby. Over the past few years, it’s woven its way into every corner of my life—from quiet moments of calm to major milestones like my wedding. Through needlepoint, I’ve formed deeper friendships, created thoughtful gifts, traveled with purpose, and found space to breathe more deeply.

One of the things I cherish most is how this little craft has connected me with others. Several of my Villanova friends have picked up a needle and canvas because of me, and it’s been so fun to watch their own journeys begin. There’s something extra special about sitting side-by-side with people you love, sharing stories, snacks, and stitches.

I’ve had the chance to attend needlepoint crawls—visiting charming local shops, picking up new canvases, threads, and inspiration at every stop. There’s a magic in being in spaces built by and for stitchers, where everyone understands the joy of fiber and color.

Needlepoint has also become a personal ritual. When I’m anxious or overwhelmed, stitching grounds me. It helps me breathe more slowly, focus more gently, and remember the power of a small, intentional act. In many ways, it’s helped me build new habits—whether it’s creating time for myself or simply practicing mindfulness.

It’s also become a way to mark and celebrate chapters in my life. I’ve designed custom pieces for my wedding, including special touches with my new name. My dog wears a custom needlepoint collar, and I’ve stitched gifts that carry meaning.

There’s something incredibly powerful about taking the time to make something by hand. For me, every stitch is a tiny reminder to slow down, connect, and create beauty in the everyday.

Necklace and Jewelry Box

Location of Wedding Reception on a pillow to keep forever.

Bennie wearing his collar

“Every stitch is a tiny reminder to slow down, connect, and create beauty in the everyday.”

Kirsten Hurlbut

“Don’t get caught up in the supposed “rules” and just go for it! Learn as you go but don’t let perfect be the enemy of good for your first couple of projects”

“Often times I will stitch to get read or unwind from the day”

“‘Flow State Science’ is real!”